When I work on paid jobs at the cemetery, I often walk the grounds and notice headstones for children and young couples. Recently, I saw a headstone from 2002 for a young groom, with his bride’s name also engraved. I looked up their names online, found a phone number, and texted to ask for permission to clean the headstone, which had heavy water stains. The bride replied, and we began a conversation. I asked for her email to send an authorization form, but she was hesitant and preferred to meet at the cemetery office. I explained that I was offering to clean the stone for free and was not affiliated with the cemetery. She decided to decline my offer. This experience highlights why education on this topic is important. I was in a similar situation in 2011 when I found my grandparents’ headstone neglected. Cemeteries do not maintain headstones due to liability and labor costs. When you buy a plot, the cemetery only promises basic grounds care, not headstone cleaning. Many people feel guilt and frustration when they see the condition of their loved one’s memorial. I always look at a headstone as investment in our family history and legacy. I sure would like to add some dignity to this young grooms legacy. https://tinyurl.com/bddhx3f5 https://tinyurl.com/2w9k2z4x